This has felt like a long week back from such a great break. Ella has a little cold but has been a trooper about going to school, ballet, and swimming. Just a little runny nose – nothing major. Today in school, Ella told the class that she celebrates Chanukah and Christmas. When I heard this I thought about it for a little while and realized that we do celebrate Christmas with Helen and Ron and the kids and they celebrate Chanukah with us. At this point, Christmas is not about religion for Ella – it’s about the overall holiday experience and we are going to go with wherever she’s at. Here are a few pictures of Ella over the last 2 days and then some great photos of Ella swimming today. Enjoy.
Ella at the elevator on Tuesday morning – all ready to go to school.
In the car on the way home from school today looking as beautiful as ever.
The walk from the train to the pool.Now for all the swimming shots… notice that Ella is swimming a little freestyle, she has on flippers, she is using a kickboad, and she is spending much more time alone. I can’t wait to go swimming with her.








Swimming and being Ella
December 3rd, 2009Today’s ballet video
December 1st, 2009Ella did a great job in her ballet class today…it’s not all about the dancing, it’s also about participation. Ella is so into the class and loves answering the teacher’s questions. She gives everything she does in the class 100%.

Another beautiful ballerina hairstyle by Alicia.


Crazy Ella in her PJ’s and her special out of the bath hair style.
Now for today’s ballet video…
The end of a beautiful weekend
November 30th, 2009On Saturday, we took the bus to the Contemporary Jewish Museum to see the Sendak on Sendak exhibit. Ella kind of raced through the exhibit but then stopped when something caught her eye. She really liked some of the books. Ella was also really into this other thing where you can draw on a mouse pad. She was really cooperative with taking turns with the other kids there. Grandma and papa left on the red-eye on Saturday night and will be back at the end of December. We’re all looking forward to another wonderful visit. Today Sunny did a speaking engagement in Napa and Ella and I hung around in the neighborhood…had breakfast at Crossroads and then visited Becca and the doggies. When Sunny came home, Ella helped her clean up downstairs. Ella is great at the dustbuster.
Beautiful family walking to the bus.
The sunglasses crew.

Ella loves these water steps.
Reading “Where the Wild Things Are”.
Throwing coins into the water with papa.
Ella had a little fit and didn’t want to sit with us when we were eating lunch. She was crying into the wall…I call this photo “The Wailing Wall”.
Going down the slide at Yerba Buena.

True love.
Posing with Orlando Cepeda on the way to Crossroads.
Fooling around on the way to Becca’s.
Here is a video of last week’s ballet class.
Grandma and Papa are in town!
November 28th, 2009It’s been a while for me. Grandma and papa arrived on Monday after visiting Jesse and Heather in LA. Ella was so excited when they picked her up from school with me. Mommy had some major dental surgery on Monday so she was at home recovering. She is doing really well now…only took about 2 days to begin the healing process. Grandma and papa went to Ella’s ballet class. That made Ella really happy too. On Tuesday, I went to work and Ella went to school and then grandma and papa came with me to pick her up. We all went to Bi-Rite to get some ice cream for ourselves and to pick some salted caramel ice cream up for mommy. On Wednesday, it was grandparents and special friends day at Ella’s school and Ella was thrilled to have grandma and papa at school, in her classroom, and watching a great outdoor assembly. On Thanksgiving day, we woke up, had breakfast and then went back upstairs to watch the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade. Ella loved it – there were so many characters that she recognized. On Thursday night Sunny and I went to see Precious – heavy movie but a topic that we are both so used to with the work that we do. Today we went to Pier 39 to the aquarium, had a great crab lunch and then went to a little shop where Ella picked out an oyster and this woman opened it up and found a pearl inside. Ella was concentrating so hard on watching what was going on and was kind of in shock when she saw the pearl come out of the oyster. We have had a great visit with my parents and can’t wait for them to come back Christmas time. We have one more full day of fun tomorrow and then they leave on the red eye. We love you guys!
Grandma reading to Ella before ballet class.
Leaving school on Tuesday.
Walking to Bi-Rite with grandma and papa. Love the dress AJ!
Papa and Ella having some ice cream together.
Touching the trees.
Ella and some of the sweet kids from her class reading books before school starts.
Grandma and papa in Ella’s classroom.
On Wednesday night, Sunny and Ella did a little scooter ride around the ballpark. The trees are beautifully lit and the night was magical.
Ella and Juliet hanging out together.
Mommy and Ella.
All you need is love, love…love is all you need.
Grandma cautiously watching Ella climb the red thing.

Playing with papa on the merry go round thing.
Heading up the stairs to the aquarium.
Ella in the octopus tank.



Here are Ella, mommy and grandma at the “petting” part of the aquarium, waiting for the rays to come out of the water to pet them. It’s really exciting and a happy experience.
Ella petting a red-eared slider.
Ella picking out an oyster.
Here we are watching the lady trying to find the pearl.
Here is Ella’s pearl…it’s beautiful and she loves it.
Here is a short video of Ella on Wednesday night riding her scooter outside of the ballpark where they just put up magical lights and then of Ella picking out an oyster and finding the pearl.
Princess bowling and Happy 15th birthday Bug!
November 23rd, 2009Stella and Juliet were away during Ella’s birthday and Ella really wanted to celebrate with them. Ella wanted to go bowling and wear princess dresses so we did…
Welcome to my bowling party…


The beautiful princesses hanging out at the bowling alley.
Ella did a great job – it only took about 4 minutes for the ball to make it to the pins. Good thing the bumpers were up. Check out Ron’s form right next to Ella.
Our happy girl.
I look like I was signaling to hit a home run.
Looks like Ella is getting a little tired. It’s tough for a 34 pound kid to roll a 6 pound ball down the alley!
Sunny and KJ watching Helen bowl.
Happiness!
Next stop is lunch at Mo’s.
Watching the ice skaters. Ella wants to do this next.
Ming Ming cupcake time.

Beautiful Bug turned 15 today! It’s so hard to believe that we’ve been together for almost 15 years. She is virtually deaf and blind and yet she is so sweet and loving and wonderful. Love you Bug!
The lighting of the Embarcadero buildings and Ming Ming cupcakes
November 22nd, 2009On Friday night, we were going to have Friday night movie night with Stella, Juliet and the rest of the Kim/Arena clan but then we heard about some festivities happening at the Embarcadero buildings. They were lighting the buildings for the holidays and there was a Disney on Ice thing going on at the outdoor rink. We all had a lot of fun…it was crowded but the kids were troopers. We had dinner at Taylors in the ferry building and then we walked all the way home. The kids were running and climbing and jumping and way too exhausted to watch a movie. It was a sweet night. Today, we hung around the house and then Sunny and Ella made “Ming Ming” cupcakes. I have to show them right now – they are fantastic!

Can you believe what a great job Sunny did!? The crazy one with M& M hair was my creation with Ella. We called it ding ding.
Now for last night’s pictures.
Ella’s artwork is evolving daily. She did all of this by herself.
Ella has been into drawing bugs and bees and butterflies.
Big jump in the lobby.
Big girls walking to the train.


Watching the show.

The illuminated buildings.
Going over to Taylors. I got my haircut yesterday and he blew it straight. A little bit of a different look for me.
Starting to walk home.
Strolling home with the beautiful Bay Bridge in the background.


Climbing, running and jumping.
Another Ballet Video
November 18th, 2009I fought the fatigue and put the movie together. I hope you all enjoy it. xoxo
Ella the shark
November 17th, 2009When we were at the dentist in May, they did x-rays of the front of Ella’s mouth to see if and how her adult teeth were developing…if they were in place etc. The dentist gave us a copy of the x-ray and we left it at the office. When we were there last week, they gave us another copy. I scanned it and it’s really cool.
The first shot is the top teeth and the second shot are her bottom teeth. Can you believe that she is living with two sets of teeth right now? What a trip.
Ella did a great job today in ballet. Alicia was out today so Ella’s hairstyle wasn’t as fancy as a regular Alicia Monday but she looked really cute. I will make the movie tomorrow. Here are 2 pictures from today.
Ella right before going into ballet class. The band-aids are from her 4 year shots. She won’t let us take the band-aids off because she thinks it is going to hurt. She’s right.
Ella talking to the birds in the Zen garden.
Catching up
November 16th, 2009What a crazy week. Not only did Ella turn 4 this week but she had her 4 year dentist appointment and her 4 year doctor appointment. Her dentist appointment was on Tuesday. She was very anxious about it and pretty much cried all the way there. Once we got there, she was ok – a little crying here and there but not having to do with anything that the dentist was doing. She was on Sunny’s lap the whole time and watched Toy Story on the video. Her teeth are looking good – she loves to brush her teeth but she hates using toothpaste. That’s our big next step…we have already tried all the flavors, even chocolate, and she pretty much gags. We won’t give up.
Ella went to the doctor on Friday. She was a little nervous before the appointment but not so bad. When we got to the waiting room, she started to cry a little bit. Once she was in there, she was totally cool. Ella now weighs about 33 pounds and is 38″. She had a vision test, hearing test and had her blood pressure taken…all firsts. Everything was great. Ella then had the H1N1 nose spray and 2 other boosters. They didn’t have any more seasonal flu shots so we are going to have to go back next month. Ella didn’t like the shots too much but she did much better than I do when I get shots.
On Friday night, one of Ella’s classmates Eli, his brother Harry and their parents came over for Friday night movie night. We all had a great time. The boys love music so for a good part of the night, the kids were upstairs singing in the microphone, hitting the drums and playing the piano. Ella took the camera and took some great pictures of the boys.


Mommy made Ella chocolate chip pancakes on the morning of her birthday. Mommy has skills – check out “Ella” in pancakes!



Some of Ella’s great photos of Eli and Harry.
Harry took this art shot of Ella.
Here is last week’s ballet school video…we have been very busy this week!
SWIMMING!
November 13th, 2009This video is incredible because Ella is becoming such an amazing swimmer. I couldn’t think of any terrific music so I just left it raw. Enjoy!