Life With Ella

Golden Gate Park

lauren — Tue, 07 Sep 2010 07:01:20 +0000

We had a great weekend in the great outdoors. Saturday in Oakland, Sunday in Gilroy and today in San Francisco. Today we went to Golden Gate Park, got a pedal boat, went around Stowe Lake, fed some huge carp or coy and had a little picnic. I took Ella to the pool for family swim at around 4:30 and then we all met Debby and Toby at the Public House for dinner. The Giants are doing great and we are getting excited about possibly having a post season here in San Francisco. Total nerds with the self-timer on the pedal boat. Ella feeding bread to the giant coy. What a fun day.

Gilroy Gardens

lauren — Mon, 06 Sep 2010 05:52:04 +0000

Today we went to Gilroy Gardens with the Kim/Arena clan. The weather was beautiful, the place was really sweet, the kids were wonderful the adults were somewhat well behaved (just kidding) and we had a great time. It was nice to be somewhere local where none of us had ever been. Ella of course had a blast being with her best buddies. Ella loved all the rides and she loved the water part of the park too. I have a lot of pictures to post now. We drove out there in separate cars - at this very moment, Ella spotted the Kim/Arenas walking through the parking lot. Sweet Stella. KJ getting comfortable in his stroller. Waiting on line for the strawberry ride. Walking to the next ride. Having fun on the fish ride. Ella hitched a ride with KJ. So sweet. Firetruck fun. Giving high fives to mommy. FUn fun fun at the water park. THe kids loved getting the water dumped on their heads and Ella loved the slide. At one point, a big kid accused her of cutting (she didn’t - I was watching the whole thing) and she looked him straight in the eye, put up her fist and said, “I DID NOT CUT”. He kind of looked at her in shock and turned around. At least we know that Ella can take care of herself! Dippin’ dots. Ella making a wish. I asked her what her wish was and she said that she wished for the rest of her Annie costume to arrive. Here we are on the apple and the worm ride. Our last ride - a very sweet boat ride that was way too short and the line to get on the ride was way too long but we all still had a sweet ride. The kids were more patient than the adults! Last shot of the day…Ella and her new duck that she named Lilah.

Oakland Zoo

lauren — Sun, 05 Sep 2010 05:36:09 +0000

AJ and Milo were supposed to come today but Milo had a rough time at the airport - he wouldn’t stop crying and was really working himself up so AJ decided that she didn’t feel comfortable flying alone with Milo. AJ - we totally understand. We wish you guys were here with us but we get it! Love you! The day in SF was pretty overcast but we could tell that the sun was trying to come out. We decided to take a little trip to the Oakland Zoo. It’s always fun there. We like the sky ride and train ride and the animals are sweet when you can find them. We had a really sweet day there - Bug was heavy on my heart and Sunny’s heart but that’s part of love and life. We are heading to Gilroy Gardens in the morning with the Kim/Arena clan. The kids are going to have a blast. The 3 of us on the train. Our big beautiful girl. Ella was watching this monkey put on a show. Standing on giant snake eggs. Riding a giant caterpillar. Spidergirl. A refreshing ice pop on a hot day. Ella is growing up in front of our very eyes. She’s totally into Miley Cyrus and Hannah Montanna…a little scary.

Ella is so happy at school

lauren — Sat, 04 Sep 2010 07:01:20 +0000

There is nothing more beautiful than picking up Ella from school, having her run to me and give me a big hug and then want to go back and play with her friends. Ella is so happy and confident this year at school. Her whole energy feels different. I guess being one of the oldest kids in preschool is really making a difference for Ella. We both met Ella after school and took a walk over to Bi Rite. Brickelle (who is now in kindergarten) came onto the yard to meet Ella and they gave each other the biggest hug. It was so beautiful. They were both so happy to see each other and they are both doing well in their own classes! We all walked over to Bi Rite together and saw a lot of other CDS families there. It was a beautiful day and a great way to end the week - having great ice cream. Tonight the movie picked was “A Bug’s Life” - pretty intense choice since it will be one week since Bug died on Saturday. Last Friday night, we were all saying goodbye to Bug. We had a sweet night tonight. On the way to the car. Ella skips to school! She is so happy there. You can just feel the happiness through the photo. Beautiful kids! Brickelle, Ella and their buddy Maya. Brickelle, Ella and Brooklyn - I can”t believe how much he has grown up. A great San Francisco scene.

Second day of school

lauren — Fri, 03 Sep 2010 06:36:38 +0000

Ella had another great day at school today. She seems really confident and excited about learning and exploring. A lot of the new kids are still having some trouble adjusting. Ella did a crying report yesterday and did another one today. She thought it was great that this one kid who cried almost the whole day yesterday only cried in the morning today. She also told me that I kid was saying the word “stupid” when they were outside playing on the structure. Stupid is a word that we do not use in our family and Ella knows how strongly we feel about it. She does not use it either. I asked her if anyone said anything to the kid and she said, “No, we were outside so none of the teachers could hear him but I said something, I told him to stop saying stupid”. I asked her how he responded and she said, “He didn’t stop”. Then I asked her what she did when he didn’t stop and she said, “I walked away”. Whether all of this happened or not, I like it that she said that she walked away. This is a good skill to have. After school, Stella and Juliet came over and the girls hung out. Stella started kindergarten at Friends on Wednesday and Juliet is in her final year at Pacific Primary. It was sweet for the girls to get together after their separate days at school. I had a massage tonight and then met everyone at Blush. AJ and Milo are coming this weekend. I am really excited to see them and also excited to see KJ and Milo together. Ella by the elevator…she still looks a little tired. In the classroom checking out the fingerpaints. Jumping on the trampoline - maybe it will wake her up a little. Ella and Stella tonight at Blush trying to get some Fruity Pebbles in every bite. Notice KJ with his sweet little frozen yogurt goatee.

Ella’s first day of her last year of preschool

lauren — Thu, 02 Sep 2010 07:05:44 +0000

Ella was excited to go to school today. That made us feel so good because we were excited for her to go to school too! Ella had no problem with me leaving the classroom and was excited when I came to get her. I asked her what the best part of her day was and she said, “Miss Alicia - being back in Miss Alicia’s class!” Ella reported that many of the new kids cried and cried and I reminded her that she did the same thing her first year. After school, we went out to dinner in the Castro with Donna and Nikki B. After dinner Ella was taking a walk with mommy and saw a salon - it was a nail salon but Ella thought it was where you can get your hair cut. She can’t get her hair cut there, but we all got a kick out of the name. A huge preschool smile. Doing some math with her buddy Clark.Nikki B, Ella and Donna after a delicious dinner. This is the place where Ella wants to get her haircut. Oy Vey.

Annie costume

lauren — Wed, 01 Sep 2010 06:29:18 +0000

Before I get into the Annie costume, Ella had her first unofficial day of school today. The orientation went really well. Ella seemed to be really happy to be back at school and was talking up a storm. She was talking to Alicia as if they were long lost friends, filling her in on what she did over the summer. It was actually so cute to watch Ella speaking with Alicia with such confidence and poise. She’s usually a little shy around her. After the orientation, Ella told me that she wanted to grab lunch at the Nordstrom Bistro. Ella had mac and cheese and then ordered ice cream with hot fudge. She used some of the fudge to dip her strawberries and some on the ice cream. After Nordstrom, Ella had a swimming lesson. After the lesson, we had dinner at home. A package was delivered this evening and it was a part of Ella’s Halloween costume. Yes - “Annie’s” dress came in the mail, and of course Ella put it right on. She was so cute in it. The wig should be in sometime this week. We went out for a walk with Towby and at the end of the walk, Ella did a song from Annie for us in the hallway. The song was “dumb dog”. Ella after eating a whole bowl of mac and cheese. Chocolate makes Ella very happy. Sandy and Annie. Annie walking down the street.and now for the video…

School starts on Wednesday!

lauren — Tue, 31 Aug 2010 06:12:20 +0000

Life is beautiful and we miss the shit out of Bug. Sunny and I are both super sad about Bug. We probably break down crying a few times a day. Ella is doing just fine. I guess we prepared her for Bug’s death. It also really helps that we have Towby. He is getting a lot of attention. He seems like he misses Bug. She was a great dog and we were so lucky to have her for as long as we did. On Sunday, Ella asked me when school started. I told her that on Tuesday, we all had an orientation where the kids and parents would be in the classroom together for 45 minutes and then the kids could go out and play and the parents had to stay in the classroom to find things out about the school year. Then I told her that her first day of school was Wednesday. All of a sudden she yelled, “YAY!!! Miss Alicia!!” This made us feel so good that Ella was excited to go back to school and to see Ms. Alicia. We’re excited for Ella. This should be a great year for her. She has grown so much over the summer in so many ways. I think she’s also ready to be a “big kid” in the classroom. She told me that if the younger kids were having trouble, she would want to give them a hug. I think Ella got a lot of hugs her first year. Today, Ella and I had lunch at Crossroads Cafe and then Stella and Juliet came over for an afternoon movie. They all go back to school on Wednesday so it was a special before school movie afternoon. Ella had so much fun that she cried when they left. Ella was running around the garden at Crossroads pretending that she was a fairy. We went to Southpaw pet store and Ella visited with a new friend. Helping mommy cut the artichokes for dinner. Our beautiful beagle boy Towby. Tonight Ella was adding texture to dry erase artwork by using a toothpick to make white lines.

Bye bye Bug

lauren — Sun, 29 Aug 2010 07:21:42 +0000

We woke up this morning and Bug was breathing really heavy. Sunny and I decided that we needed to take her to in and put her to sleep. I went over to Helen and Ron’s and asked them if they would take Ella for a little while. I told Ella that we needed to take Bug to the vet and that we thought that she was going to die today. Ella looked at me and said, “Really?” I said, “really”. Then I told her that she was going to go over and hang out with Stella and Juliet - she yelled “YEAH!” and jumped out of bed. Once Ella was next door, Sunny called the vet and asked them if we could bring her in. They said that we couldn’t come in until 10:30. It was only 9:00 and Bug just seemed like she needed to die. We kissed her and hugged her and told her that it was ok to die and that she was the greatest dog. We both just sat together and cried. About 5 minutes later, Bug died on her own. It was actually so peaceful and I am so happy that she did it on her own terms.After the very sad morning, we went on with our day as planned - for our sake and for Ella’s sake. First, we met Bronwen, Georgia and company for Dim Sum. Ella really loved seeing her cousins and it was great to spend time with David and the girls. After Dim Sum, we came home and rested for a little while. At 3:00 Ella went to Taekwondo class. She loves it so much. She gets into the studio and starts running around, chasing the other kids. She kind of got zoned and silly by 4:30 but that’s a long time to stay focused! We came home from class and rested again and then Ron, Sunny, Ella, Juliet, Stella and I went to see the “Broadway” version of Beauty and the Beast. The girls really loved it and had a great time. What a day and night. Life is quite incredible. Ella and Georgia at brunch. Ella and Bronwen at brunch. Does she look like she’s having fun or what????? Getting ready to go see Beauty and the Beast. This would have been the perfect shot if Ella wasn’t blinking but you can feel the love.

Happy Birthday Jesse

lauren — Sat, 28 Aug 2010 07:19:37 +0000

Happy Birthday Jesse - hope you have a beautiful day. We love you. Can’t wait to see you. We had a mellow day - Ella and I went to a park so she could run around. Ella’s class is having an informal get together at this park on Sunday and I told Ella about it yesterday so she told me that she wanted to go there today to check it out. Tonight we had Friday night movie night with Stella and Juliet. We watched Beauty and the Beast. On Saturday, we are taking the girls to see the theatrical version of Beauty and the Beast here in San Francisco. Bug is still hanging in there - she’s just relaxing and eating turkey. We are going to see how the weekend goes and then figure out what to do next. This is difficult but we’re trying to be as honest as we can with Ella. Whenever we spell the word D-I-E…she says, “That spells die - when Bug dies I am going to write her a card saying, ‘Dear Bug, I am sorry that you D-I-E.” I told her that would be beautiful. Ella and Bug today. Ella and Towby today. This is a drawing of an angler fish that Ella and I made the other day. we bumped into a colleague of mine at the park and her son Cairo joined Ella on the swing. Ella is a fantastic climber. This thing also spins but I made sure that nobody spun it around while she was climbing. Making brownies for movie night. The girls having brownies and watching Beauty and the Beast.